How about tearing your life apart to buy a house and sabotage (or attempt to), ruin your chances to make the 2000 Paralympic team and in the process leave you homeless after moving 700 miles to a small town in Northwest Wisconsin. Said person lost friends, 'lived' in a motel 6 for almost a year, declared bankruptcy, had a nervous breakdown, almost lost his family because of it. She lied, to him, to his friends and even to her friends.