How about tearing your life apart to buy a house and sabotage (or attempt to), ruin your chances to make the 2000 Paralympic team and in the process leave you homeless after moving 700 miles to a small town in Northwest Wisconsin. Said person lost friends, 'lived' in a motel 6 for almost a year, declared bankruptcy, had a nervous breakdown, almost lost his family because of it. She lied, to him, to his friends and even to her friends.

The last thing he said to her face was, "I don't mind that you lied to me, I mind that you lied to my mother." That was 25 years ago.

That person was me. I survived that crap and even the after-crap.