I tried that before. It never works. The same crap pops up every time. Either on one side or another. Also, I've walked away from friendships and relationships because of the former guy*. (I'm not the only one, either) I recently ended a friendship with a woman who I've known for 20 years over Donny of Queens. Another one, because I just got tired - tired of all of it. The lies, the empty promises, all of it. I'm 65. I don't need to play games anymore. I recently read a piece in The New York Times about dating over 60. After reading the article, I told a friend, "I'd rather buy porn. And even that gets boring after a while."