Lets see now. To recap, you were married to a man who joined the Marines, had a family with him, even though he was a homophobic, He-Man A-ho in addition to having disturbing thoughts about pre-adolescent girls, including, but not limited to his daughter. Who, after seperating, you attempt to 'save' an unsavable marriage by 'getting fit' and allowing yourself to be screwed like a $20 hooker, which solved nothing.

Then, said He-man homophobe turns out to be homosexual. (figures) But, you get hauled before a JAG hearing and get blamed for the dissolution of said marriage because you made a relationship with someone who a) treated you like a woman instead of a 'stand-in' to cover for his real sexual identity, and b) didn't have an ego the size of Montana. Somehow, this is all your fault? I think not.