My 'ex' girl friend (who used me to buy a house) was 13 years younger than me. Her mother hated me, told me to 'go back to the big city, where you belong.' (I did) She used me to get the house, then, according to information I gleanned from my bankruptcy and calling various agencies and contacts, got married again (to an older man) who paid off the mortgage and then she divorced him. It's been nearly 25 years and I still remember the last words I ever told her before I left - "I don't mind that you lied to me. I mind that you lied to my mother."