Pro tip, from someone who's been there: Women: Don't ever patronize a man (boy), by calling him 'nice.' If I had a dollar for every woman who used the "you're a 'nice' guy, but..." line or the more up to date, "You're my best friend and soul mate," I wouldn't have to write for pennies on Medium. Plus, it's a 50/50 proposition you'll end up the 'star' on Dateline. Just a friendly tip from a guy who's been there/done that.