The best advice I ever gave to a woman was a few years back, in Vegas of all places. She was 30-years younger than me and her boyfriend was listening to it as well. I told her, "don't ever call a man 'nice.' It's like calling a woman 'handsome.' You think you're letting him down easy, you're not. You're setting yourself up to be the subject on 'Dateline.' You choose your words carefully. Every one of us is capable of going to a dark place, no matter the circumstances."